Depression can cast a shadow over our lives, leaving us feeling unmotivated, unproductive, and overwhelmed by negative emotions. One such emotion can be the feeling of despair with the belief that tomorrow will be the same as today. As a result, we often find ourselves doubting our productivity, leading to a sense of low self-esteem and sluggishness.
However, a simple acronym, P.E.R.M.A., (Pleasure, Engagement, Relationships, Meaning, and Accomplishment) can transform our perspective on productivity and empower us to recognize our achievements. By understanding the criteria of P.E.R.M.A. we can redefine productivity and improve our mental well-being.
Pleasure: Redefining the Joy of Productivity
Traditionally, productivity has been associated with completing tasks or achieving tangible results. But we can often find pleasure in our day-to-day tasks and adventures. Finding joy in our actions, no matter how mundane, can significantly impact our overall satisfaction. For instance, even though washing dishes may not inherently bring pleasure, recognizing that it contributes to maintaining a clean and organized household can shift our view and put the task in a positive mindset. Finding value in these small victories can add tremendous value overall.
Engagement: Immersing Ourselves in Meaningful Tasks
Engagement is a key element of productivity. When we are fully absorbed in a task, time seems to fly, and we experience a state of flow. It is in these moments that our productivity soars. While some tasks may appear mundane, finding ways to engage with them can make a significant difference. For example, listening to an audiobook or engaging in a conversation while performing household chores can enhance our overall engagement, making the task more fulfilling.
Relationships: Nurturing Connections and Productivity
As humans, we thrive on connections and relationships. By recognizing the significance of these relationships and the interactions they bring to our productivity, we can foster a sense of fulfillment. This can be as simple as engaging in tasks that strengthen our relationships, such as spending quality time with loved ones or participating in group activities. All of these activities and more can be considered productive as they not only contribute to our personal growth but also cultivate a sense of belonging and well-being.
Meaning: Finding Purpose in Everyday Actions
The pursuit of meaning is an essential aspect of a fulfilling life. When we understand the purpose behind our actions, we infuse them with significance, leading to a profound sense of productivity. No matter how simple, each task can be linked to a larger goal or personal value. For example, preparing a healthy meal can be an expression of self-care and a step toward maintaining a healthier and balanced lifestyle. Recognizing the meaning behind our actions allows us to embrace our productivity and find purpose every day.
Accomplishment: Celebrating Milestones, Big and Small
Accomplishments are often viewed as significant achievements or milestones, but in the context of P.E.R.M.A., we broaden our perspective to include big and small victories. Recognizing and celebrating even the smallest accomplishments can boost our self-esteem and motivation, fuelling our productivity and drive as we move to the next task. By acknowledging our progress, we create a positive feedback loop. Whether it’s completing a challenging project at work, finishing a book, or even taking a shower, each accomplishment, no matter how minor, contributes to our overall sense of productivity.
Embracing P.E.R.M.A. for Enhanced Productivity and Well-being
By incorporating the P.E.R.M.A. framework into our lives, we can revolutionize our understanding of productivity and combat the debilitating effects of depression and other mental illnesses. The hidden power of P.E.R.M.A. lies in its flexibility, allowing us to measure productivity based on various dimensions. It enables us to find value and satisfaction in a diverse range of activities, regardless of societal expectations or external judgments.
Have you ever felt like your days are uneventful, leaving you feeling unproductive and unsatisfied? It’s time to challenge that perception. Grab a piece of paper and write down the words “Pleasure, Engaged, Relationship, Meaning, Accomplished.” Now, start writing down the tasks you completed today – every single one of them: taking a shower, walking the dog, eating breakfast, getting groceries, etc. As you list each task, put a checkmark next to the categories it meets. For instance, taking your dog for a walk might earn a checkmark under Pleasure, Relationship, and Accomplish. Repeat this process for all your tasks throughout the day, and prepare to be amazed. Take a moment to observe the number of checks accumulated. You’ll likely discover that you are far more productive than you realize and feel.
P.E.R.M.A. serves as a tool for self-compassion. Often, we are our harshest critics, downplaying our achievements and fixating on what we perceive as shortcomings. However, by adopting P.E.R.M.A., we shift our focus to what we have accomplished rather than what we haven’t. This shift in mindset can alleviate feelings of inadequacy and boost our self-confidence, fostering a positive cycle of productivity and well-being.
As we internalize the principles of P.E.R.M.A., we begin to realize that we are far more productive than we give ourselves credit for. By acknowledging the moments of joy, engagement, connection, purpose, and achievement in our lives, we cultivate a positive mindset and counteract the negative impact of depression. So, the next time you question your productivity, remember P.E.R.M.A. and take pride in the many ways you contribute to your growth and happiness.
If you’re looking for help in putting P.E.R.M.A. into action or looking to take the next steps in your mental wellness journey, book an appointment with Stone Silo today. Our team of therapists is equipped with mental, physical and spiritual wellness. We’re always ready to help you with whatever challenges lay ahead. Learn more about our Mental Wellness Team and Physical Wellness Team to book an appointment today.
